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Wedding traditions of yore get makeover now with couples and families want to emulate it on the momentous day.

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Weddings are occasions when the whole family, relatives and friends join and spend a wonderful time together. Indians with their close knitted community life, not only want to make it a big affair, but also explore ways to make it unique. Apart from the rocking and fun sessions, a revival of old traditions seem to overpower nowadays. Many of the traditions are passe now, but their revival along with customization’s is the latest.

Let’s revisit the traditions of a typical Malabar Muslim (Moplah) wedding which have a lot of traditions unlike Muslims in other parts of Kerala. There is coalescence of the North Indian Muslim Weddings and the Arabian. This is mainly due to the influence of the Persian and Arabian traders who settled there once and their descendants living here.

WEDDING RITUALS
Engagement
In Muslim community the bride and groom meet each other only after the consent of both families. A ‘valayidal’ function will be conducted as the groom’s family visits the girl’s house and presents her with a bangle symbolizing the engagement. The marriage date will be fixed then and the relatives of the bride in return present the groom with cash and gold. This will be followed by a Quran recital.

Pre wedding Ceremonies
Muslim Weddings are the most elaborate in Kerala both in terms of feasting and ceremonies. Traditionally, wedding celebrations start two days before the marriage. Arikuthu: Close relatives of both families gather at the respective houses and make arrangements of the cereals for the wedding day. Also known as ‘cheriperukkku’ they crush rice in ‘urals’ and pack them together singing songs and having fun. Nowadays it is done symbolically. This will be followed by an elaborate feast with special dishes for the day.

WEDDING EVE
Mylanchi Raavu
Just like the ‘baraat’ in North Indian Weddings, ‘Mylanchi Raavu’ is an elaborate function in North Kerala.

Haldi
This is a North Indian tradition. The bride and the groom will be at their respective houses and their friends and relatives apply haldi (turmeric) on their hands and feet. They sing traditional songs and have fun while applying. After a bath, they will be adorned in dazzling attires and with traditional ornaments for ‘Mylanchi’.

Mylanchi (Mehendi)
Groom’s sisters along with some women come to the bride’s house to take part in “mylanchi”. The bride dressed ornately will be seated in the middle covering her head and bowed in shyness. They adorn the bride’s hands and legs with intricate mehendi designs and sing “mappilapattu” teasing her beauty, her groom and the new life. They also play “oppana” (traditional dance). Bride’s friends and relatives will put mehendi on one hand and the groom’s people on the other hand. A similar function takes place at groom’s house also. Instead of applying mehendi on hands, it is put on the top of a leaf which the groom holds in his palm.

Each member from the groom’s family in turn put mylanchi on the bride’s hand and similarly at the groom’s house too. This is intendedto ensure that each member from the other side sees the bride/groom properly.

POST WEDDING
Rukshat :
The bride’s family bids her farewell to her husband’s house. The bride’s father gives her hand to her husband telling him to take care of her. The parents of the bride accompany her with fruits and sweets (nalla vaathal). The groom’s mother welcomes the bride holding the Quran on her head as she enters the house. The groom’s family hosts the “valima” (wedding reception), on the night after the wedding.

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Grace Personified: Alia Bhatt’s Mesmerizing Black Saree Ensemble

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In the world of fashion and Bollywood glamour, certain looks transcend trends and become timeless classics. Alia Bhatt, with her impeccable style and innate grace, often sets the bar high when it comes to iconic fashion moments. One such instance is her mesmerizing appearance in a black saree, where she effortlessly personifies elegance and sophistication. Alia Bhatt just took a quick flight to London to go to the premiere of her next web series, Poacher. She arrived at the occasion with elegance, wearing a gorgeous black velvet saree and pearl jewelry that gave off a timeless charm. Along with her sister Shaheen Bhatt and mother Soni Razdan, the trio enhanced the event’s glitz. 

Offering fans a peek into the Poacher screening, Alia posted images from the event to her Instagram account. Her fan accounts quickly reposted the images. She shared a series of pictures with Shaheen with the message, “With my best, shaheenb,” and an endearing picture of Soni, Shaheen, and herself sitting together in the crowd, which only served to heighten the anticipation.

The producer-actress looked stunning in a stunning black saree. For the evening, a corresponding sleeveless blouse was worn with the velvet Sabyasachi outfit. Alia, who exuded a royal aura, accessorized her black velvet saree with matching earrings, scarlet lips, and a bundle of pearl necklaces. She looked angelic with her hair tied back in a bun.

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Jennifer Lopez’s Daring Fashion Choice: A Wetsuit-Inspired Gown Steals the Spotlight on the Red Carpet

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When it comes to making a statement on the red carpet, Jennifer Lopez is no stranger to turning heads. The multi-talented star recently attended the premiere of “The Flash” to support her husband, Ben Affleck, who reprises his role as Batman. While their public display of affection grabbed attention, it was their coordinated and eye-catching outfits that truly stole the show. Lending her style expertise, J Lo stepped out in a bold and unconventional gown inspired by wetsuit designs, proving that she continues to push the boundaries of fashion.

Styled by the talented duo Rob Zangardi and Mariel Haen, her gown was a striking creation from Gucci’s resort 2023 collection, fresh off the runways of Seoul. The ensemble featured a sleek black zip-up bodice reminiscent of scuba suits, adding a unique and unexpected element to the traditional red carpet attire. Contrasting the sporty top, a flowing peach satin maxi skirt with a long train exuded elegance and femininity.

While the gown was originally presented on the runway with a fully zipped-up collar, J Lo made a daring choice to unzip hers just above the belly button. This modification transformed the look into a more revealing and sensual ensemble, showcasing the star’s confidence and willingness to embrace risks. With every step, the gown accentuated her enviable figure, commanding attention and setting a new standard for red carpet fashion.

To complete her show-stopping look, Jennifer Lopez made careful choices when it came to accessories. She opted for a pair of white leather platform pumps from Gucci, elevating her height and adding a touch of sophistication. The choice of accessories further emphasized the fusion of sporty and elegant elements in her outfit. Complementing the gown’s black bodice, she adorned herself with exquisite jewelry pieces from Daniela Villegas and Le Vian, adding a touch of luxury and sparkle. Carrying a sleek black leather clutch bag by Kurt Geiger, J Lo effortlessly showcased her ability to curate every aspect of her ensemble.

One cannot overlook the sartorial synchrony between Jennifer Lopez and her husband, Ben Affleck. Affleck, known for his impeccable red carpet style, consistently mirrors the overall vibe of J Lo’s look. For the premiere, he opted for an all-black ensemble, comprising a sleek black suit, a matching black shirt, and polished black leather dress shoes. The couple’s synchronized fashion choices not only showcase their undeniable chemistry but also demonstrate their commitment to presenting a cohesive and visually appealing appearance together.

Jennifer Lopez continues to push fashion boundaries and surprise the world with her red carpet choices. Her wetsuit-inspired gown at “The Flash” premiere exemplifies her fearless approach to style. By incorporating sporty elements into a sophisticated ensemble, she proves that fashion can be both daring and elegant. Alongside her partner Ben Affleck, the power couple’s synchronized looks create an awe-inspiring visual spectacle, solidifying their status as fashion icons. J Lo’s ability to effortlessly command attention and make fashion statements ensures that she remains an influential force in the world of celebrity style.

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Padma Lakshmi Radiates Confidence and Empowers Women in Jaw-Dropping Bikini Shoot

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Prepare to be dazzled! Padma Lakshmi, the talented author of “Love, Loss and What We Ate,” has graced the pages of a magazine with a jaw-dropping series of bikini photos that exude sheer radiance. With a vibrant spirit and unapologetic confidence, Lakshmi is breaking barriers and celebrating the beauty of women of all ages, body types, and skin colors.

In a world obsessed with unrealistic beauty standards, Lakshmi’s decision to embrace the ‘Quiet Luxury’ of her own body is nothing short of revolutionary. This trailblazing trend champions subtle and understated elegance, proving that true beauty transcends labels and price tags. With each pose, Lakshmi sends a powerful message: women are multifaceted, unique, and deserve to feel gorgeous in their own skin.

During the captivating shoot, Lakshmi not only showcased her enviable figure but also shared her profound wisdom and life experiences. Her words resonate deeply with young women, encouraging them to embrace their journey and recognize that growth, resilience, and self-discovery make them even more captivating individuals, both inside and out.

Overflowing with gratitude, Lakshmi’s newfound confidence is rooted in appreciating her body’s incredible abilities. From the miracle of childbirth to the pure joy of indulging in delicious food, she cherishes every moment and honors her body’s remarkable capabilities. It’s a refreshing perspective that reminds us to be thankful for our own bodies and the journeys they’ve carried us through.

As news of Lakshmi’s empowering bikini shoot spread like wildfire, fans couldn’t contain their admiration. Social media exploded with heartfelt messages of awe and inspiration, as followers expressed their sheer amazement at her timeless beauty and captivating presence. One fan couldn’t help but gush, “Padma is an ethereal goddess, defying the laws of aging and leaving us all in awe!” Another enthusiast echoed the sentiment, proclaiming, “You’re a true inspiration, Padma! Your confidence is contagious, and you look absolutely stunning!”

This isn’t just a mere photoshoot; it’s a seismic shift in the conversation surrounding body image and self-acceptance. Lakshmi fearlessly shares her personal journey, shedding light on the impact of societal pressure on young minds. By vowing to redefine beauty standards, she proves that our worth extends far beyond the numbers on a scale or the size of our clothing. She emboldens her daughter and countless others to celebrate their individuality and find strength in their unique selves.

Padma Lakshmi’s vibrant and vivacious presence continues to shine a spotlight on the importance of body positivity and self-love. Her audacious choice to flaunt her beauty in a stunning bikini shoot speaks volumes about her resilience and determination to inspire others. In a world that constantly tries to dictate our worth based on appearances, Lakshmi stands as a beacon of authenticity, reminding us that true beauty radiates from within. Let her empowering journey ignite the spark of self-confidence within us all, as we celebrate the vibrant tapestry of women’s bodies and the stories they tell.

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